Courtyards at Southpoint
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Kim and Chuck
Richmond, Kentucky’s loss was our gain when Chuck and Kim DeCoste decided to relocate to Courtyards at Southpoint in early 2022.
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They wanted to move closer to their daughter and granddaughters so they could help and be more involved in their lives. After considering several “over 55” communities, this neighborhood seemed more welcoming and accommodating to them and to their granddaughters. They agree “it was an accurate first impression.”
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Kim was born in Richmond, where she attended Model Laboratory School on the campus of Eastern Kentucky University from kindergarten through high school. She went on to earn both her Bachelor of Science in Nursing and Master of Science in Nursing degrees from EKU.

Kim and Chuck on Isle Madame, Nova Scotia, where Chuck's grandfather was born and raised. They took this photo during a recent trip to Nova Scotia and Prince Edward Island.
Kim, who has one younger sister, enjoyed growing up near most of her extended family. She recalled her close relationship with her maternal grandmother, who lived just a two-minute walk away, and annual family trips to Daytona Beach in Florida. As a child, she was involved in Girl Scouts, swimming and softball and, while in high school, played on tennis and basketball teams. She also loved babysitting, volunteered as a candy striper at her local hospital and took part in youth activities at her church.
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Kim’s nursing career began in the Bone Marrow Transplant unit at the University of Kentucky Hospital. Within two years, she found her professional passion as a diabetes educator at the Lexington-Fayette County Health Department in Lexington, Ky. That was the beginning of a long career in public health and diabetes education. Kim is a certified diabetes care and education specialist and is proud to be the first licensed diabetes educator, holding license #0001. Over the last 40 years, she has had numerous jobs and has worked with various professional organizations, including as a national and international speaker.
One of her proudest accomplishments was identifying a community need for an emergency shelter for victims of domestic violence. With help from church and community partners, Kim co-founded the Hope’s Wings Domestic Violence Program (hopeswings.org) in Richmond.
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Kim admits she is having trouble retiring and still works part-time for the Kentucky Diabetes Prevention and Control Program, usually virtually from her office space in their bonus room.
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Chuck, the third of four children, was born in Gloucester, Mass. As a child, he was into sports and outdoor activities, including baseball, hockey, tennis, football, snorkeling and sailing. Family vacations usually involved time on family sailboats or a rocky cove down the hill from his grandparents’ house.
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While attending engineering school at the University of Massachusetts, Lowell, Chuck worked as a co-op at IBM in North Carolina’s Research Triangle Park. After graduation, he moved to Kentucky for a job at the IBM Selectric typewriter facility in Lexington.
He spent 10 years as a materials engineer at IBM until the division was sold, resulting in the creation of Lexmark, a printing company where he spent the next 25 years. He ultimately led a team that managed suppliers of materials and components for printer supplies.
The company expanded its manufacturing to Scotland, Mexico, the Philippines and China, and his responsibilities evolved from a U.S. supply base to a worldwide supply base for inkjet and laser technologies. Chuck never felt burdened with business travel and enjoyed working and developing relationships with Lexmark and supplier teams from various geographies and backgrounds.
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Chuck and Kim met when a coworker of Kim who was dating a coworker of Chuck introduced them at a St. Patrick’s Day party. Chuck still has at least one green beer every St. Patrick’s Day to commemorate that night, and 40 years later, they still are friends with many of the guests at that party. You might want to ask them about their second date.
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Chuck’s and Kim’s daughter, Jennifer, lives in Chapel Hill and is a pediatrician at Duke South Durham. She is also associate director for medical student education in pediatrics at Duke University School of Medicine. Jennifer has two daughters, Susana, age 10, and Marilise, 4. Chuck and Kim normally pick their granddaughters up from school and daycare a couple of times a week, so the girls have gotten to know several of our neighbors and their pets, and they have been regulars at the community pool.
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The DeCostes also have a son, Daniel, living and working in New York City as the head of growth for North America at an international technical consulting firm based in Finland. They noted their upstairs bedroom “is always ready for his visits.”
Chuck and Kim enjoy travel, hiking, beaches, music and reading, and have recently taken up pickleball with neighbors. Chuck rides his bike for exercise, and Kim walks regularly, often with a friend or neighbor. They are sports enthusiasts, particularly cheering on the University of Kentucky basketball and football teams, the Boston Red Sox and the New England Patriots. They also have enjoyed landscaping their courtyard with native (and Kentucky) plants, when possible.
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The two have truly gotten involved in the various activities offered in our community. Kim is co-chair of the Garden Club and a member of the beautification team. They also participate in the Beer Club, Travel Club, Game Night and presentations at the clubhouse.
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“Though we don’t feel the need to be skydivers, get tattoos or run marathons, we are usually open to new experiences,” they said. They are working on a plan to visit all 50 states. Kim currently is one state ahead of Chuck, having visited 47. “Anyone want to travel to Wisconsin and the Dakotas with us?” they asked. There are also some international trips they’d like to experience, including plans to visit the Galapagos and Italy next year.
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Chuck and Kim recently visited Nova Scotia and Prince Edward Island with some old IBM friends. They extended their vacation to spend some time on Nova Scotia’s Isle Madame, where Chuck’s grandfather was born. They had a great time tracking down family history and homesteads and even meeting a few cousins. “It seems that Chuck is related to about half the population of this little island,” noted Kim.
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Their best vacation ever was a 2019 trip to Egypt, where they traveled with another couple, joined a small tour group and got to know some fascinating people — all the while being constantly amazed by the remnants of ancient civilizations.
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What do Chuck and Kim want the Courtyards at Southpoint community to know about them? “We love our neighbors,” they said.
Martha Anne
If you haven’t yet met Martha Anne Auld, there’s a good chance you soon will. “Having recently retired,” she explained, “I am looking forward to joining some activities in the clubhouse when time allows and meeting more of the neighborhood residents.”
Martha Anne moved to Courtyards at Southpoint in November 2020 from Governor’s Park in Chatham County. She has lived in the Triangle area most of her adult life, and she was attracted to this neighborhood because of its proximity to essentials, conveniences, work, access to the American Tobacco Trail and the fact it’s a relatively small community.

Martha Anne
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She has an older brother and a younger sister, both living in Raleigh, and noted hers is “a close family.” Martha Anne, who has always enjoyed outdoor activities, rode horses as a child and, because both of her parents were from Wilmington, N.C., spent a lot of time at Carolina and Kure beaches. “Our family always had multiple four-legged children,” she added.
Asked what she wanted to be when she grew up, she said she was always interested in a field related to health care, “either as a veterinarian or as a role helping people. Becoming a registered pharmacist was the outcome.”
Martha Anne attended the University of North Carolina pharmacy school, which led to a job at Burroughs Wellcome in RTP. She survived the company’s acquisition by Glaxo, resulting in the formation of Glaxo Wellcome, and then the 2000 merger with SmithKline Beecham, creating GlaxoSmithKline. She retired from GSK this past May after over 43 years.
“My time in research and development in the pharmaceutical industry was the most exciting and interesting part of my career,” she stated. “I was very passionate about the 36-plus years spent in R&D working on HIV medications and was fortunate to work on the development of multiple drugs, which were approved for HIV therapy.”
An ideal day in Martha Anne’s life would include spending time with her seal point Siamese cat Coco, a brisk walk on the ATT, gardening and/or playing golf. Other things to complete that ideal day would be a walk on an uncrowded North Carolina beach, scuba diving and enjoying a wheated bourbon or a good cabernet sauvignon.
Asked what aspects of our Courtyards community she really likes, Martha Anne replied: “Most importantly, the people. We have a great community. There are many activities to get involved with, thanks to dedicated people. Everyone has interesting stories to share.”
John + Landa
Following many years of contemplating downsizing, John and Landa Abram closed on their Courtyards at Southpoint home in December 2020. They had been living in nearby Hope Valley Farms and looked at several neighborhoods in the Triangle. Settling in Durham was a no-brainer, they said, citing their many friends, their confidence in their UNC and Duke medical teams and the proximity to The Streets at Southpoint. When asked where they wanted to move, Landa would jokingly respond, “as close to Southpoint mall as possible.”
John and Landa both were born and raised in Memphis, Tenn. John had an older sister and a younger sister. His older sister started college the day he started first grade, and he always assumed he also would attend college. As a child, and without today’s access to children’s programming on TV and video games, he loved running and playing with friends in the neighborhood and taking part in any type of ball game. While in high school, he was on the football team.
Landa said she grew up with her parents and a younger brother in a

Landa & John & Lady Liberty
household that “was never dull.” She recalls dance classes, her brother and dad riding motorcycles, hanging out with her mom and friends, shopping, playing games, numerous park outings, playing volleyball and croquet and, of course, barbequing. She remembers family dinners, mostly at her home, with aunts, uncles and cousins and has fond memories of time spent with family on their boat cruising McKellar Lake off the Mississippi River.
John and Landa were introduced by a mutual friend while in high school and started dating on Jan. 1, 1970, a day John describes as the “best day” of his life. They’re coming up on their 49th wedding anniversary.
They have one daughter, Brandi Nicole, and a grand pet, Ozzie, living in Dunwoody, Ga. While attending North Carolina A&T University, Brandi was the recipient of a General Motors scholarship. After graduation, she was hired by GM and spent 13 years as a design engineer. GM later recruited her as project manager for their Chevy Volt, the company’s first electric car. Currently, Brandi is director of grants programs for a company producing graphite for use in electric vehicles. John and Landa admit to being “proud parents!”
John, pursuing a career in business administration, majored in marketing while attending Memphis State University (currently the University of Memphis) and, after graduation, was hired by K-Mart Corp., where he spent the next 20 years managing K-Mart stores.
He then spent another 20 years managing his own Nationwide Insurance Agency in Morrisville, N.C. After selling the agency, John “retired for a minute,” Landa said. She explained that a friend called her in 2019 and, after confirming John was retired, offered him a job with the North Carolina Department of Emergency Management working in public assistance. That was the end of his retirement.
Landa, whose dad had his heart set on her becoming a nurse, chose instead to pursue criminal justice at Alabama A&M University, where she received her Master of Science degree in urban and regional planning.
The couple has lived in Tennessee, Alabama, North Carolina and South Carolina because of John’s management activities with K-Mart. With all the moves, Landa noted she’s had “numerous career changes.”
Landa has worked with multiple nonprofit organizations, with most of her work focused on housing disaster recovery efforts in South Carolina, North Carolina, Colorado, West Virginia and the Virgin Islands. She has been involved in eight major natural disasters, starting with Hurricane Hugo, while working as a planner at South Carolina’s Lowcounty Council of Governments.
She is most proud of efforts in the aftermath of Hurricane Floyd and the floods in western North Carolina when she was serving as director of the North Carolina Redevelopment Center. The center’s team repaired and replaced more than 5,000 homes using an allocation of state funds.
After leaving her work with the state, Landa continued her interest in disaster housing activities, working with four consulting firms. Exclaiming “hallelujah,” she said she “happily retired in 2020.”
John is Courtyard at Southpoint’s neighbor safety representative for Unbridled Street, and Landa is a member of the Unbridled Street Care Team, which also serves a few homes on Cherob Lane. Both have been active and involved in the numerous places they’ve lived. This includes John’s Morrisville Rotary Club membership and service on the city of Waterboro’s hospital board in South Carolina and Landa’s service on the Chamber of Commerce and Edisto River Kayak Commission in South Carolina.
Both John and Landa enjoy working in the yard. John, whose favorite pastime is watching or attending a football or basketball games, also enjoys watching and listening to birds in the yard and a beautiful sunset while walking on the beach. Additionally, John likes to play poker. Landa loves playing Chinese Mahjongg and has plans for pickleball and bridge. “An occasional lunch, dinner or cookout is always enjoyable with new and old friends,” she added.
They have an ever-changing bucket list, but it currently includes trips to Greece and Denmark and possible visits to this country’s national parks. Their next vacation is planned as a trip to Seattle to visit friends, then to Alaska and Canada. This year, they fulfilled their dream of going to Europe, where they spent a few days in Rome before boarding a Mediterranean cruise with stops at cities in Italy, France and Spain.
John and Landa said they’re happy to be part of this community. They love the neighborhood, the neighbors, the friendliness and the many opportunities to enjoy various events and activities planned by the Social Committee and others.
Linda
If you’ve attended any of Courtyards at Southpoint’s many social functions, you’ve likely met Linda Goelz, co-chair of our Social Committee. There is, however, so much more to know about her that isn’t obvious in a casual meeting.
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Linda was born and grew up in a small town in northern Maine. During her senior year of high school, she was recruited to apply for a job at FBI headquarters in Washington, D.C. Linda credits her high school typing and shorthand classes for the offer.

Linda Goelz
As a high school senior in a town of 150 people, she noted, it was not too difficult to pass the FBI’s security clearance and recruitment tests. One week after graduation, and just two months before her 17th birthday, she found herself in Washington working outside of J. Edgar Hoover’s office as one of his personal administration staff.
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“To say this was a culture shock would be an understatement,” she said. “But being young and resilient and naive and fearless, not knowing what I didn’t know, and with a guardian angel on my shoulder, I somehow survived.”
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At the end of her first year at the FBI, Linda realized working under Hoover’s watchful eye was not where she wanted to be. On her commute home one day, she met a woman on the bus who mentioned a lawyer she worked with was looking for a secretary. Linda applied for the job and five years later married that lawyer.
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The couple moved to New York City, where her husband began working in the financial world and they transitioned to becoming New Yorkers. This move was “as much a culture shock as moving from my small town in Maine to Washington, D.C., had been six years before,” Linda recalled.
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After several years of experiencing what the city had to offer, and with her husband traveling often for work, Linda decided it was time to look for a job. She enlisted with a temp agency and, drawing once again on her typing and shorthand skills, was assigned to a non-profit organization which was in the early stages of producing a book intended to make art as important as reading, writing and arithmetic in the public education system. David Rockefeller, Jr., was the chair, and 42 years later, she retired as Rockefeller’s chief of staff.
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In this role, Linda met leaders of institutions, corporations and non-profits, as well as dignitaries, politicians and artists from around the world.
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“I wore many different hats, staffing (Rockefeller) on his various boards and philanthropic and charitable interests,” she said. “I have organized events for kings and queens, presidents and dictators, among others, in places like Buckingham Palace to the White House, and from small rooms to the Rainbow Room on the 65th floor of 30 Rockefeller Plaza, just above my office on the 56th floor.”
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Among the hundreds of highlights that stand out during those years was a reception at Buckingham Palace hosted by Queen Elizabeth (yes, she did carry her purse) and Prince Phillip; events in Washington and New York for Nelson Mandela when he was released from prison after 27 years; and a reception and dinner at the White House for 500 people.
As Rockefeller served as the American advisor for the Praemium Imperiale — often referred to as the Japanese Nobel Prizes in the Arts, Linda's role expanded. She spearheaded events in Japan and the U.S. for the global arts prize awarded annually by the Japan Arts Association. Capping her 15 years of involvement with that program, Linda is a guest this fall at a White House press conference announcing the 2023 honorees.
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“I have had the good fortune to travel the world, domestically and internationally, and to experience things I could never have imagined in my wildest dreams, working with a family whose impact on education, medical research, conservation, equality, social science, politics, business and the arts have impacted millions around the world,” she noted. Linda continues to work as a consultant for different projects.
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Living in such a vibrant and stimulating city as New York for so many years, Linda experienced many highs and lows. The biggest low of all and one that “will be forever etched in my brain,” she said, “was witnessing 9/11 from my 56th floor office.”
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She remembers how the city came together then in a way it never did before or has since. “The urge to mourn alongside others brought people together from across the country and around the world. Spontaneous memorials appeared on every street and in front of every firehouse. Volunteers from around the country and world came wanting to help. It is unfortunate that today that feeling of solidarity and care and respect for each other has mostly been forgotten. Will it take another catastrophe to bring out the best in humanity again?”
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Linda moved to Courtyards at Southpoint in May 2021 and just recently sold her New York apartment she had shared with her late husband. After 55 years in the city, she acknowledged she misses the city and her friends, but said she plans to make several trips back every year to take advantage of the best the city has to offer.
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Linda is very happy in her new neighborhood, loves her neighbors, values the new friends and especially loves the sense of caring and community she has found here, which is exactly what she was hoping to find at this stage of her life.
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“While I may have left my high-rise life in the Big Apple behind, I hope to carry my ‘New York State of Mind’ with me to my new life in the Bull City,” she stated.
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She is excited to continue making new friends, experience new experiences and learn about southern living and culture. “I am already learning about plants and gardening, pig pickins’ and pimento cheese, and just planted a magnolia tree in my yard. Soon I will be speaking like y’all!”
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Working with her co-chair, Mieke Jobsis, and other members of the Social Committee, Sheryl Knauss, Jan McCallum and Ginny VanWagner, and along with the newest members, Joanna Knox, Agnes McShane and Judy Orser, Linda gets to continue her event planning, although not at the same level as her previous events but still using the same transferrable skills.
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“Don’t forget to check our calendar regularly and join your fellow neighbors for an array of activities,” Linda urged. “We have lots going on. Thank you for welcoming me.”
Michael + Scott
As you’re strolling through the neighborhood, you’ll come across several beautiful and well-maintained yards, but one of many that really pops out belongs to Scott Kowalczyk and Michael Stalker.
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Having navigated the reality of COVID with new home construction, Scott and Michael moved across town in January 2021 to their new Courtyards at Southpoint home.
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Scott & Michael on Easter Island
They particularly liked the southern Durham location and its proximity to the American Tobacco Trail and Interstate 40. They’ve since come to appreciate the friendliness of their neighbors and the abundance of social activities with welcoming organizers and participants.
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Scott and Michael met in 1999 through Yahoo personals, originally exchanging messages. They had a first date in early 2000 and have been together since, eventually marrying in 2015, a couple of months after the U.S. Supreme Court ruling that legalized same-sex marriages.
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Scott, one of six siblings, was born and raised in Peru, Ill. As a child, he was active in sports, specifically baseball and basketball. He was also a strong student, realizing early on that he had an interest in cardiac health.
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He studied cardiac nursing as an undergraduate at Mount Marty University in South Dakota. Scott had spent his entire life in the North with harsh winters, so he was absolutely committed to finding a job in the warm South and in 1983, he accepted a nursing position with the UNC Health Care System.
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Michael, one of seven children, was born in Bossier City, La. His family moved frequently, settling in Columbia, S.C., during his high school years. As an Explorer Scout, and with thoughts of becoming a dentist or orthodontist, he volunteered in a dental clinic at Fort Jackson, where he realized that “prevention was more compelling than treatment.”
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With an undergraduate degree in Spanish, Michael was drawn to the Peace Corps, where he served as a public health volunteer in Guatemala and learned to knit as a form of relaxation. He went on to earn a master’s degree in public health leadership from the UNC School of Public Health and has enjoyed a long career in international public health. For more than two decades, he has been with FHI 360, a nonprofit human development organization, overseeing health programming in countries around the world. His portfolio includes programs in tuberculosis; maternal, newborn and child health; water, sanitation and hygiene; and clinical trials that included work on both HIV and COVID prevention and treatment.
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Asked about the best or most interesting job he’s ever had, Scott cited the majority of his career as a heart transplant coordinator. He recalled speaking to people who had been told they didn’t have long to live, and the challenge of explaining their transplant candidacy, the organ waiting list and the life-long commitment on their part following the transplant. Calling a patient, usually at 2 a.m. or 3 a.m., and telling them there was a match and it was time to “exchange their heart” was “a bit crazy,” Scott said. He had the privilege of being by their side for the rest of their lives—for routine heart biopsies, clinic visits and being on call 24/7 for medical problems or issues.
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Michael’s most interesting job was serving as the director for a regional HIV program in Central America. The job was based in Guatemala, which allowed him to return to the country and see the advances in the health care system since he had been there as a Peace Corps volunteer a decade earlier. This job also gave him the opportunity to travel throughout Central America, working on programs to create a more favorable political environment for HIV prevention, care and treatment programs.
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Scott’s main hobby is gardening, but he also enjoys interior design, cooking and, most recently, learning watercolor painting. His ideal day starts out leisurely sipping coffee, followed by a midday workout, a few hours in artistic pursuit and ending with a pre-dinner cocktail and delicious dinner.
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Michael’s primary interest is travel. He’s visited more than 40 countries on six continents. Additionally, he’s revived his knitting hobby and said he finds its meditative rhythm to be soothing. He enjoys four- to five-mile walks with dog Bentley on the American Tobacco Trail (before it gets too hot because Bentley is not fond of temperatures about 72), working on a knitting project or learning a new knitting technique and exploring destinations for travel in retirement. Of course, the pre-dinner cocktail and dinner shared with Scott is a highlight, he added.
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The two enjoy traveling and agree their best vacation ever was the “fascinating destination” of Easter Island. The giant moai (carved stone statues that date back many centuries), whose origin and purpose remain a mystery, drive tourism to the remote island. The island is claimed by Chile, but has its own passport stamp, which they made sure they got. Their trip also coincided with Rapa Nui week—a cultural festival with traditional music, dance and sports.
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Their shared bucket list includes visiting every U.S. state capital, renting an RV to explore the Northeast during fall and a cruise. In 2020, COVID squashed plans for a cruise to celebrate a banner birthday for Scott.
Scott and Michael welcome neighbors to stop by for a chat, and stressed that if anyone needs a hand, please reach out to them. They are “more than happy to help.”
Gene + Noelle
Perhaps you’ve been noticing dump trucks and more commercial traffic in the neighborhood lately, as well as the clumps of dirt that covered Cherob Lane earlier this spring. Or maybe you’ve felt some of the effects of the blasting behind the properties at the end of Cherob Lane.
Somewhat inconvenient, yes, but also the price of progress for the second phase of Courtyards at Southpoint. And if you have considered it inconvenient, then please have some empathy for Noelle and Gene Granger.

Gene and Noellle in Iceland
The Grangers were the Courtyards at Southpoint’s first residents, moving to their new home in October of 2020, and living here during the construction of most of our homes. Although they expressed no complaints about that experience, Noelle did recall that it was “really dark out here at night.”
After living in Chapel Hill for over 35 years, they discovered that their four acres of property and empty nest of a house were becoming hard to maintain. Before Chapel Hill, they also lived in Cleveland, Ohio; Newport Beach and Costa Mesa, Calif., and Evanston, Ill.
Noelle was born in Connecticut and grew up in Plymouth, Mass., in a 100-year-old home facing the ocean. Her summers were spent sailing and swimming competitively, and her vacations involved sailing up and down the New England coast. She’s always loved animals and had a long line of them as a child. In her spare time, she had her nose in a book.
Gene was born in Waverly, N.Y. and grew up in Horseheads, N.Y., a small village his mother’s family had lived in since before the Civil War. He was raised as an only child, but at age 70 discovered a brother he had not known.
Noelle and Gene met in graduate school at Case Western Reserve University, where they were lab partners. “I do remember seeing Gene walk across the front of my first biochemistry class in grad school and thinking that’s one guy I will NEVER date,” Noelle confessed.
Gene’s recollection of meeting Noelle, however, is a bit different and more detailed. “She was good looking and had a great sense of humor,” he recalled. “We became good friends and dated after about two years. One evening . . . I asked her what she would say if I asked her to marry me and she said ‘Yes.’ My response was what the hell do I do?” That was over 56 years ago.
The Grangers have two adopted children. Their son Patrick lives in Utah with his Italian wife Lidia and their 17-month-old daughter Alexandra, described by Gene as “precocious,” and by Noelle as “a pistol, much like her dad was at that age.”
Their daughter Cameron was six months old when she became part of the Granger family, arriving from Seoul, Korea. Cameron lives in Durham with her husband Nathan and their three-and-a-half-year-old son Eli, “who brings laughter every time we see him, which is often,” Noelle stated.
“Our children taught us so much about life and how great it is to have children around you,” added Gene. “We shared our love of travel by taking them anywhere we went in the world – Europe, Galapagos, Africa.”
When she was young, Noelle admits she had no idea what she wanted to be when she grew up, but an aptitude test she took in middle school determined she would either be a forest ranger or a gas station attendant. Fast forward to college when she decided to major in zoology, but also considered learning Spanish well enough to work as a translator at the UN. She found science much more interesting and proceeded to get her post-graduate degree in anatomy. She then went on a sabbatical with Gene, where she was introduced to invertebrate endocrinology, which became her research basis for the rest of her career, including time on the UNC faculty.
After graduating from high school, Gene went to Johns Hopkins University, where he majored in biology. He then went to Case Western Reserve and ultimately finished his doctorate in California. In 1972, Gene received a grant from the National Academy of Sciences to go work in Prague with a friend and colleague at the Entomological Institute. After nearly eight months of living at their “second home” in Prague, with Gene trying to decide “what I wanted to be when I grew up,” he applied to medical school, took his MCATS in Geneva, Switzerland and was later accepted at Case Western Reserve. He recalled that “Noelle refused to go back to the ‘mistake on the Lake,’ i.e., Cleveland.” What “clearly saved a marriage” was an invitation to the University of California Irvine, where after four years of medical school they were off to Chicago to begin his residency at Prentice Women’s Hospital at Northwestern, where Noelle was pursuing a post-doctoral appointment.
When Noelle accepted a position at the University of North Carolina, Gene thought “that as long as there was sex in North Carolina, I could make a living and have fun.” He joined the Durham Women’s Clinic founded by Eleanor Easley.
Following retirement, Noelle is pursuing her interest in writing and is currently working on a book about her life titled Growing Up Pilgrim, a collection of stories about growing up in Plymouth.
In addition to reading, writing books, sailing and swimming, Noelle’s hobbies include knitting, travelling and baking. An ideal day would involve some combination of writing, baking, swimming, getting together with friends and, of course, spending time with her grandson and granddaughter.
And she’s no wimp when it comes to her top three bucket list items. One is skydiving, which she had already done. She said she’d also like to swim with great white sharks off the coast of California (“in a cage of course”) and sail one of the America’s Cup boats in San Diego Harbor.
“My ultimate goal in life was to be rich and do good works,” Gene said. “The first never happened and delivering babies was my good works.” He is currently working to catalog a lifetime of pictures and write the history of both sides of his family. He and Noelle are planning a trip to Scotland and numerous trips to Utah to see their son, daughter-in-law and granddaughter. They also love spending time in Maine, where Noelle gets ideas for, and Gene takes pictures for, her mystery books.
Gene is not certain he has a bucket list, but has “always dreamed of seeing the Himalayas, but of course not climbing.” He would have liked to spend time in Africa with midwives in the villages, but now that time has passed, he looks forward to seeing his grandchildren graduate from high school.
In Gene’s opinion, the best feature of this community is the people, whose backgrounds and interests are myriad. “The Courtyards has given me the opportunity to work with nearly everyone while on the Architectural Review Committee.”
What does Noelle really like about our community? “Hands down, the people,” she stated. She wants the folks at her end of Cherob to know she’s the Community Watch person and the Care Committee person for that area and “I’m here to help.” And, she added, “I love to laugh!”
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Brenda
If you’re feeling a bit down and looking for a genuine pick-me-up, there’s no need to look any further than the happy and ever-smiling face of Brenda Rogers.
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Wanting a home that was easy to maintain in a neighborhood closer to family and friends, Brenda sold her home in Governors Club just south of Chapel Hill and moved to the Courtyards at Southpoint in October of 2021. “The home design was exactly what I wanted,” she explained. “I could live downstairs with an upstairs set up almost like an apartment. My plan is to age in place here!”
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Born in Andrews, NC, and raised in the Asheville area, Brenda noted that while her parents lived in the mountains of North Carolina their entire lives, she has lived “all over the state.” Now that she has settled here in the Courtyards at Southpoint, she said she really likes the “friendliness of our community and my neighbors, our activities, the convenience of everything.”

As an added bonus, Brenda’s sister and her husband, and her sister-in-law, husband and their young-adult son live in the area.
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Brenda described her childhood as “fairly normal.” She said she was well-adjusted and excelled academically. “I took piano lessons and participated in clubs at school, attended church and lived in a fairly close community.” As a young child, “I wanted to be like my mother, a homemaker.”
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While a teenager, however, she read a book her mother had purchased, The Feminine Mystique by Betty Friedan, “and I knew I did NOT want to be just a homemaker,” Brenda stated. Her father had always told her she could be whatever she wanted, but, at that time, career options for women seemed limited to teaching, nursing, clerical and social work. She made the most of the education and social work options.
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“My first job out of college was as a social worker, a job that opened my eyes to the inequities and the problems women with children faced when their mates left them,” Brenda said. “I became convinced that women had to be able to provide for themselves and their families. Education was essential.”
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So, she went to work at a community college, helping adults complete their GED certificates and prepare for job training. She received her master’s degree in Adult and Community College Education and went on to teach at several North Carolina colleges.
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Brenda’s next goal was to get a Ph.D. in the Human Resource Program in NC State University’s Psychology Department. After receiving her doctorate, she worked in institutional research and planning, which involved conducting student outcomes research and supporting institutional accreditation at NC State, NC Central University and Durham Community College.
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Brenda then became vice president of the North Carolina Community College System, responsible for overseeing planning, research, computing, personnel and program auditing. She retired from that position and state government in 2001, but went on to hold several part-time and contract jobs, including a month in the United Arab Emirates, where she assisted with the accreditation of the George Mason University’s campus there.
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After retiring, Brenda volunteered with the League of Women Voters, serving on the board at the local, state and national level. She said her focus locally was building membership, and as president of the Orange-Durham-Chatham League, she was “most proud of the award our League received at the national convention for our increase in membership.” She continues to support the League and its mission: Empowering voters and defending our democracy.
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Retirement has not slowed Brenda down. She enjoys playing the piano (“badly,” she claimed), reading, sewing, crochet, playing bridge and Word with Friends, yoga, regular walks and watercolors. But her two kittens, Bert and Ernie, comprise her passion.
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As if that doesn’t keep her busy enough, she is also active in the West Raleigh Rotary Club, where she serves on a committee that is helping a refugee family from Congo. She takes classes through Shared Learning, attends plays, dance performances, music events and art shows — a regular “culture vulture,” she noted.
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Brenda described her ideal day as a “leisurely morning reading the paper online and drinking coffee while playing with my kittens, taking a class, having lunch with friends, taking a long walk or hike, preparing a healthy dinner and maybe inviting a neighbor to join me, watching a PBS series or a movie and reading a good novel before going to bed.”
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Asked what the top three items are on her bucket list, Brenda said a visit to Ireland and the Highlands of Scotland, which is planned for 2024, another trip to Italy and just staying healthy and active for another 20 to 30 years.
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Brenda noted she has had many losses, including the 2022 death of her 101-year-old mother and the sudden death of her husband in 2008, “but being thankful for all that I have has gotten me through those tough times.”
John + Sylvia

The Courtyards at Southpoint received a real treat on Halloween day 2021, when John and Sylvia Robinson moved to the neighborhood. For the Robinsons, treats that day involved a moving truck and lots of boxes.
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After 28 years of living in the same Fairfax, Va., home, and with both being retired, they decided it was time to downsize. Noting this would be their first move that wasn’t linked to a job requirement or that included school-aged children to consider, they utilized what they referred to as “an elaborate decision-making tool” to identify Durham and Southpoint as their ultimate destination.
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In no particular order, they determined they were looking for one-level living in a 55+ community, where they would have access to excellent medical care, a lower cost of living, warmer weather, less traffic and not too far from their children, three of whom live in the D.C. area. They considered Greensboro, South Carolina and Florida. I’m “OK with foxes in the back yard, but not alligators,” John confessed.
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John was born, and spent much of his youth, in Tuskegee, Ala., while Sylvia grew up in West Medford, Mass. They attended colleges in New England and Palo Alto, Calif., respectively.
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John and Sylvia met in Boston, when they were “fixed up” by mutual friends, who arranged a dinner, the sole purpose being to introduce the two. Although the dinner was “extraordinarily awkward and embarrassing,” they noted we’ll be celebrating our 40th anniversary this June, so we “guess it worked well after all.”
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The Robinsons have four adult children. Their oldest daughter, Camille is a bilingual school psychologist, living in D.C. Second daughter, Nailah, is a nurse practitioner in northern Virginia, and their oldest son, Earl, a network security engineer, lives and works in Prague, Czech Republic. Matthew, their youngest son, works at the State Department and lives in Alexandria, Va.
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John and Sylvia’s only grandchild is their “beloved grandson, Benjamin,” who is living with them while he studies information technology at Durham Tech. “He’s a great kid and keeps us alert,” John said.
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Long before college or being fixed-up with Sylvia and raising a family, John, who enjoyed old western/war movies, aspired to become a Cavalry officer. He was “sorely disappointed” to learn the horse cavalry no longer existed. However, becoming a military officer was still on his list, and he served as a naval officer during the war in Vietnam.
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John’s military goals were replaced by a desire to become a college professor and/or psychologist. Ultimately, his career spanned numerous positions in academia, state government and federal government. He retired from the U.S. State Department as deputy assistant secretary and chief diversity officer in 2017.
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He said his best job ever was director of the Department of Employment and Training while a member of the Rhode Island governor’s cabinet. John remembers “a terrific office in an old, renovated jewelry factory. A car came with the job . . . a new Crown Victoria” and my “own parking spot.” There were two “best” things about that job, he explained. First, I “learned a huge amount about labor policy, unemployment, unemployment insurance and people.” Second, the governor was the only person who could prevent John from implementing his creativity and new ideas about government, and “he interfered rarely.”
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Sylvia, who grew up in a relatively small community with grandparents, aunts and uncles close by, had thoughts of becoming a teacher or lawyer, but knew she also wanted to travel and explore the world. While she completed her undergraduate and graduate work expecting to become a teacher, she said most of her work life was devoted to higher education and non-profit administration.
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Her career has included positions as dean at Wellesley College; executive director of the Rhode Island Children’s Crusade for Higher Education, a new program for disadvantaged students (now called Onward We Learn); executive director of the American Heart Association’s Washington, D.C. affiliate, and executive director of the GED Testing Service at the American Council on Education.
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Sylvia’s “most interesting job” was her time with Onward We Learn. Working with educators, business leaders and government officials to establish the program, we had to learn about hiring staff, working with a board, strategic planning, raising funds and building community support, she explained. Sylvia said she is “very proud” that after 30 years the group is still “helping low- income, disadvantaged students successfully complete their college educations.”
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A few years into retirement, Sylvia noted “things slowed down a bit,” and she decided to get her real estate license, resulting in a seven-year realtor career. That experience was “very valuable” in finding our new home in Durham.
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Sylvia has certainly fulfilled her desire to travel and explore the world. Among her fondest memories are a 15-day cruise to Australia and New Zealand that culminated in watching New Year’s Eve fireworks from a catamaran in Sydney Harbor, and a month touring South Africa, Zambia and Botswana. During that trip they visited the cell that housed Nelson Mandela at Robben Island Prison in Cape Town.
Her bucket list includes trips to Southeast Asia, including Vietnam and Cambodia, as well as visits to other parts of Africa and the Middle East. She believes her “wanderlust” has been the driving force in her life and has led to her most exciting adventures.
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John recalls their best vacation as their first family trip—two weeks on Beals Island in Maine, a fishing and boat-building community that was isolated for years before a causeway was built and which was “sociologically fascinating.” Sylvia was pregnant with their youngest child, the older kids “had a ball with their bikes and new experiences” and the “seafood was fresh every day.”
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What items remain on their bucket lists? John would like to cruise to Vietnam and return to South Africa. Sylvia, who had the honor of shaking President Obama’s hand while John was working at the State Department, hopes to one day meet Michelle Obama.
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In their spare time, John enjoys Civil War history, African-America history and vegan cooking. Sylvia’s favorite activities include exercise, playing bridge, reading, gardening, community service and spending time with family and friends.
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Asked what else they’d like their neighbors to know about them, John replied that, while he is not proud of the Vietnam War, he is a “proud Vietnam Veteran” and proud of his service in the U.S. Navy. He firmly believes he did his duty when it was his time.
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Sylvia wants her neighbors to know she is loving the new friends and warm welcome she has received here. This community has fulfilled all they hoped to find in their retirement lives and she said she “couldn’t ask for better neighbors.”
Rico + Peppy
Your neighbors, the Davids, traversed continents before calling the Courtyards at Southpoint home. Peppy and Rico were both born in the Philippines, where, without ever meeting each other, they lived for years before coming to the United States.
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Rico moved to New York when he was 30, while Peppy came to the U.S. when she was 26. In 1980, while visiting San Francisco,
a friend asked Peppy to join her on a trip to Washington, D.C., and New York for a week.
“Little did I know that I would end up staying” in New York, she said.
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Peppy and Rico with their grandchildren.
Peppy and Rico finally met each other when Rico’s aunt left a package from the Philippines for Peppy to pick up at his Brooklyn apartment. Rico answered the door wearing shorts, but no shirt. “She must have liked what she saw,” he recalled, “because she gave me her phone number before she left.”
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Rico, who originally wanted to be a pilot, received his degree in business administration and ended up working in the pharmaceutical industry. Peppy, whose favorite subject was math, received an accounting degree, and while still in the Philippines, worked as a certified public accountant. After moving to New York, she worked for the United Nations for over 30 years.
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They both enjoy river cruises and snorkeling vacations. Two of their best trips have been to the Galapagos Islands in Ecuador and to Machu Picchu, Peru. They hope to visit Iceland, India and Switzerland in the near future, as well as possibly go on a safari.
After living in New York more than 40 years, they moved to this neighborhood in the spring of 2021 to be closer to their children.
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Their son, Lawrence, and his family moved from Boston to Chapel Hill in 2013, and their daughter, Stephanie, accepted a position in Chattanooga three years ago. “Having access to both the mountains and the ocean, plus the added benefit of warmer weather, has drawn us to make the move south,” they noted.
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In addition to their children and two grandchildren, the Davids have in-laws living in Chapel Hill in the Courtyards at Homestead Road, siblings in California and other family scattered throughout various parts of the U.S., Europe, Asia and Australia.
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Rico, who tries to bike every day, enjoys playing chess, poker, a good game of tennis and catching up on the news. He recently finished reading Empire of Pain by Patrick Keefe, a book describing the devastation Oxycontin has wrought on the U.S.
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Peppy enjoys doing puzzles, card games, hiking, snorkeling and reading suspense thrillers. On her ideal day, she would spend the morning walking along the beach and/or fishing with her grandchildren. In the afternoon, she would relax with a good book or prepare to have her whole family over for dinner.
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She would keep the menu simple. Rico would be happy to grill some steak and vegetables and serve some of their favorite Filipino dishes.
How do they describe themselves? “We are easy-going and friendly and enjoy spending time with our neighbors,” they said.
Mark + Peggy
If you already know Mark Witcher and Peggy Bush, you know they are an active and involved couple. For starters, Mark is the sole resident representative on the board of our HOA.
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They moved to the Courtyards at Southpoint in July 2021, after Peggy, an avid runner, spotted the Epcon sign following a run on the American Tobacco Trail. They had been living in Chapel Hill since 1995 and decided this neighborhood was a great location and provided the perfect opportunity to downsize.
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Mark and Peggy met in the early 1980s in Painesville, Ohio, when they were both part of a company golf league. And now they have two adult children—Kristina, a daughter living in Baltimore, and Andrew, a son living in New York City.
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As a high school student, Peggy worked in a local corner pharmacy and went on to become a pharmacist. This was followed by further studies in pharmacology, work in clinical research and ultimately a career change to teaching. She is currently on the faculty at Duke, teaching pharmacology to graduate online nurse practitioner students.
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Mark, whose father was an engineer and advised him to consider chemical engineering because of the flexibility options, took his father’s advice. He initially worked in the chemical industry and later in the biopharmaceutical industry.
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Do they have any special interests or goals? Mark said he aims to shoot his age in golf, while continuing to work part-time. Peggy noted they recently achieved one of their major goals, which was to attend the Peach Bowl game between Georgia and The Ohio State University (OSU) on New Year’s Eve. We’ve been “waiting for years for OSU to go to the Peach Bowl,” she said.
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Peggy is really good at finding new places to explore on the East Coast, where they can also visit with their kids. Her latest find is historic Fredericksburg, Va., which has great places to eat, breweries, historic sites and excellent theater. And, she added, it’s on the Amtrak line "so our kids can get there easily."
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Mark’s ideal day would involve working on a good engineering problem or playing golf with friends in the morning and watching football and napping in his recliner in the afternoon. The ideal day for Peggy would start with a 7 a.m. workout at Orange Theory, followed by an Egg White Grill at Chick-fil-A, then a day of remote work with some Zoom meetings.
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Mark and Peggy love their new home, the community and living so close to the ATT, particularly after driving to it from Chapel Hill for many years. “We look forward to getting to know everyone better,” they said.

Beverly + Ray
In the off chance that you haven’t already had the pleasure of meeting Beverly and Ray, we’d like to take the opportunity to introduce you to the Abbotts, and perhaps get to know them better.
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Beverly and Ray bought their Courtyards at Southpoint home in December 2020 after deciding they wanted to downsize from a three-story house about 10 minutes from here. “No more stairs for us,” said Beverly. Plus, she noted, “we like this area.” They moved to Durham from Fort Lauderdale over 30 years ago and both have family in North Carolina, including their son and grandson, who live in the Triangle area.
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Ray grew up in the same North Carolina town where Beverly’s paternal grandmother lived. The two met while Beverly was visiting her grandmother. Ray was 18 at the time, and Beverly was 15. Because they lived in different states, they only saw each other once or twice a year. However, when Ray was in his senior year of college and Beverly graduated from high school, she moved to North Carolina to continue her education. Fast forward, they are currently enjoying Year 52 of “wedded bliss.”
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When they were young, Beverly wanted to become a doctor, and Ray, who had grown up on a tobacco farm, knew he didn’t want to stay on the farm. Ultimately, Beverly went into management editing, finance, and performance tracking, while Ray became the owner of a wholesale automotive supply business.
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A normal and “ideal” day in the Abbott household is all about “hanging out with each other.” That includes being outside in the yard, photography, working on family photo albums and cooking together. When Beverly was just eight years old, she started working on her family genealogy, a project in which Ray developed an immediate interest when they got married. Much work was done prior to the internet, when you really had to dig for documentation, however the two have worked consistently on that project all these years.
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If they were to write a book about their life, Beverly’s would be titled “Family,” the story of an only child’s relationship with family. The title of Ray’s book would be “Growing Up on a Carolina Tobacco Farm,” detailing the hard work of a family farm, and how it consumes your youth.
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Asked what the best advice they ever received was, Beverly said; “Make your own joy and let your light shine,” while Ray added “Be financially prepared.” The top items on their bucket list are “staying well, safe, healthy and happy.”
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What do they want their neighbors to know about them? “What you see is what we are,” noted Beverly. She can often be found sitting on her front porch, waving to anyone driving by and conversing with anyone walking by, while Ray is busy maintaining his yard and beautiful gardens.
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